Stop entertaining, dealing with, putting up with, and/or staying with, people, places, and things that do not feed you. Stop placing yourself in situations with people who you know are ineffective to you, and then blaming them. Stop underfunding yourself, but expecting people to overfund you! You ever listen to some folk whine and complain… Read More

LISTEN! No, listen for real!! This is a need more than a want! Whatever that IT is that occurred today. We fitna wash IT off! And I’m going to break IT down for you right now! Whether IT be a person, place, or thang that done ticked you off, pissed you off, caused confusion, chaos,… Read More

When I became a military wife, I already knew my do’s and dont’s of what I wanted to experience and not experience while my husband serves this hell hole of a country we’re living in. Now, of course there’s a lot of things I cannot control. Thank God for Jesus, I let Him handle those… Read More

If you’re checking for me on social media, it’s going to be null in void! My best moments are not even shared there. Okay so, for those who do not know. I’m really not that big on social media. Don’t misconstrue my posting and involvement Chile. If I wasn’t a blogger, I wouldn’t have not… Read More

Sundays seem to make me reminisce about Sundays back in the day when we were just ‘kicking it.’ Sunday’s were always the chillest day out of the weekend. After partying Friday and Saturday (Most weekends.) we would be fried, dyed, and laid to the side, come Sunday Chile. We have partied together, I ain’t lying.… Read More

GET YOUR OWN GOALS❗️ GET YOUR OWN PRAYER❗️ GET YOUR OWN LIFE❗️ Folks really be on some, “Couple goals” while looking at someone else’s relationship. Why? Why would you eva look at someone else and say goals. I mean, what about you? You don’t feel as if you’re a goal? Or do you not want… Read More

Hey Chile! You know what time it is! That time after you eat, and things start moving slow and getting tired. That’s where we at right about now. Woo Chile. Ya know what though, I didn’t eat much today at all. I think it’s a thing when you do the cooking, ya know. Today was… Read More

Merry Christmas Eve Chile‼️ Its Christmas Eve morning in good ole California. It’s about 9:30 on the West coast right now, and we’re definitely still in the bed, curtains still closed. Naomi just woke up not too long ago herself. She walked in our bedroom looking for her Mac book. Yes, my three year old has… Read More

The movie Titanic is a good example of how a woman wants a good man, but she is not equipped to have a good man. To whom much is given, much is required. I’m Just Saying… Now! Maybe she did say that, and Jack was like, “Naw baby. I’m good.” Maybe Jack wanted to do what… Read More

⚠️ WARNING ⚠️ If you don’t tip properly it might just ruffle ya feathers a tad bit. Big ups to all my ‘servers,’ ‘waitresses,’ ‘waiters,’ though!  If the ish eva hits the fan finically or if I’m in the business to make a quick coin to save up for this, that, or etc. I’m going… Read More