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Alright so, it is 9:19 a.m. right now. (Back home, it’s 12:19 p.m.)
I got up and did my regular smegular morning routine. Ya’ll know I be up like at 7:30 a.m. even on the weekends right? Ha-ha. I just cannot lay around in bed. I don’t know why. I just can’t. Once I open my eyes, pray, and go over all the things in my mind I have to do, then I have to get up. Before I do anything I have to read my Jesus Calling book first. So, by the time I get up, get my book, I read, pray, I always have to give some time to God, because I make time for everything else. By the time I do that, I have to go to the bathroom. And don’t forget about Naomi. Regardless if Rob is here or not, that lady calls me for everything! I can be in the bathroom, shower, or wherever, and that lady will come find me, ask me for help, and then there goes Rob just sitting there clueless. I’m like Naomi is ya daddy broke? He can’t put any juice in your cup? Chile!! (I wouldn’t change it for the world though. If she didn’t bother me, I’d be looking for her with a flash.) #MommasBaby.
This has been a long weekend for me. Boring a little. It’s very rare when I am bored. But when I am it makes me sad because I feel lonely.
I’m a very outgoing person and I love people. I love to chit chat and what not! But when you know better, you do better in my opinion. And a lot of people on a personal level with me, is not good for me. Rob and me hang out with two couples here maybe. And that is maybe once every two months, on a good month, I may see my girl four times. I love her girls. Naomi does too, haha. We workout, hangout, cookout, etc. But other than that, I don’t fool with people. I don’t trust them. And if I have a problem, then it becomes my husbands problem and vice versa, and he has to go work with some of these people. I just, I don’t know. I love to meet people, network, whatever. But as far as everybody being at my house, no! As far as me being at everyone else’s house, No! letting everyone in to my safe haven is a no go for me! Shoot, I don’t want everyone to know where I live. What’s the old saying, I don’t poop where I eat. Yeah. I don’t have time for the rift raft! You don’t ever know people until you know them. I always pray for discernment, always! And God knows that I be serious too. If it is anyone and I do mean anyone, that is not sent to me by grace, then get the stepping!! Get ta stepping!! I don’t want it. I don’t need it. Peace be still. I wave to my neighbors, ‘Hey! How are you doing today?’ I throw my hand up and keeps (No typo.) it moving.
And excuse me when I say this, for those who can fit the shoe. But umm… Some of these wives need to get a job! quick, fast and in a hurry! And if they can’t get a job, then they need to get a hobby. Paint, read, write, SOMETHING!! Cause they be ridiculous for real. I’m telling you what I know and done heard. And only the guilty party will feel some kind of way about this. Don’t worry , we gone pray for you!
I haven’t been Robs wife his nine years of being a marine. But I’ve been around, okay! Please believe me Jodie. Heck, I knew Rob before he was a marine. I say that to say this, I done seen people caught up in foolishness petty drama! And some folks, we’ll, they drama be on a whole other level. April don’t want anything to do with it. I don’t even want to hear about it after a while. Heck at all depending on what it’s about! Won’t anybody be saying they told April anything! Don’t ask me any questions, because I don’t have any answers. Listen, I done had enough drama in my life. Welcomed and unwelcomed. Mess that I done stirred up, and drama that was not welcomed. At this age, time and place in my life, I run from it. If I see a warning about something or somebody, I take heed of it. Warnings come before disasters, believe that! Everyone is not wrapped to tight and everyone doesn’t mean you or yours well. Know the difference between someone caring and being nosey.
Now, there are some that may say, ‘April you’re missing out.’ I say, on who or what? Because what God has for me, it is for me. That means WHO he has too. If there is a friend that God sees fit for me to befriend, I will. Until then, I’ll stick to who and what I know.
I’m Just Saying…