Yes! I am a Virgo, and I absolutely love it. Being a Virgo suits me very well, if I do say so myself. My birthday is August 24th, I slide right on in the Virgo season. The birthdays of a Virgo is, August 23rd- September 22nd. My lucky numbers are, 5,14,23,32,41,50. Which is interesting, I always either pick the numbers 3 or 5 in any suitable situation. Virgo colors are white, yellow, beige and forest green. If my entire bedroom could be all white I would love it. But that’s only a fantasy for many reasons, Naomi, so it’s no need to linger on that. I really love the color beige, I actually really like beige and white together. I do honestly think when there is a wedding, that beige and white could strongly be a pick. *Mmm….I’m on to something* White is crisp, sharp, it’s pure, clean! Green, Oh yes!! Those who knowwww me, know, I love me some forest green. I love a forest green coat or jacket especially! Yes!
My greatest compatibility is, Taurus and Capricorn. Well isn’t that something. The onlllyyyy man I’ve ever been in love with, IN LOVE WITH, my husband is a Capricorn! Ha! Ain’t that something?! *Chuckles*
Now, let me make this clear, I enjoy horoscopes, I haven’t actually read mines in awhile, until I started to prepare for this blog. Somethings may be very accurate! However, I, myself don’t rely on a horoscope to validate my life. I soley rely on God for those things. Now! Let’s get to it!
Here Goes….
Best Virgo traits and characteristics
Intelligent, Very!
Analytical, Yes
Precise, Yes
Introvert, Heck no!!! That’s not me!
Intense, Very
Sensible, Very. We need to be
Serious, Yes. BUT, not all the time
Practical, Very
Realistic, Very
Loyal, Very
Responsible, Very
Down to Earth, Duuuh!
Cautious, You dag on right!
Patient, Yes. Now that Naomi is my life! 🙂
Self-disciplined, Yes! #Proud.
Dependable, Yes
Flexible, Very much so
Adaptable, Like no other!
Balanced, Yes, Ma’am
Curious (bad side=nosy!), mmmm, yeah maybe, not really. Just know that curiosity doesn’t kill the cat around here. If it’s not pertaining to me and mines, I’m not lingering on it.
“Some of the positive Virgo traits include, reliability, intelligence, practibility, and modesty. However, as any other zodiac sign, Virgo, also has negative qualities. Some of the negative Virgo characteristics include fussiness, meticulousness, negativity, crankiness, and being overly reserved.”
Ummmm, I must say a lot of the negative things are true. I can be fussy, especially if you ask my husband! *Hahaha, rolls eyes* BUT!!!! I’ve come a long way! No one wants a nagging woman. Not matter how cute you’re. No,seriously though. It’s not appeasing. Meticulousness, definitley! I get on my own nerves when I get like that, I can’t rest until it’s right. I can be the most tedious thing. Like if a picture is on the wall & its crooked, I can not wait to do it in the morning. I refuse too. I would literally get out the bed at that moment and fix it.
The negative part, no, I don’t except that. I’m very optimistic! Of course I have bad days, but I don’t linger in it. I pray, listen to my gospel music, *feel good music* and I’ll call a friend. But when the devil tries and brings me a storm, I let him know that I am the storm. I don’t go on and on about people, places or things. You know how people just on and on about things they claim they don’t care about? I try not to pounder on MINOR things! Life’s too short! I have waaaay too much to be thankful for, to dwell on nonsense and other peoples short comings. So negative Nancy, not this Virgo. Crankiness, I reckon I can be at times. Reserved. Mmmm….not necessarily. I have no problem with sharing my feelings, my trials and tribulations with people. I love to tell a story about a tragic time in my life, I love to share the love, and grace and mercy of God. However, I am very conscious in who I share certain things with of course, & not so much because I’m reseved (I don’t think I am anyways) but because some people aren’t concerned. Some people are just nosey! Some people are waiting for your down fall. Some folks don’t literally mean they will sincerely pray for you. Some people just want to run and go tell them and they. So that’s why I shelter and protect my family by keeping somethings on hush. But other than that, I’m honestly an open book, with a few secret passages. *Teehee*
Bad Virgo traits and characteristics
Over analyzing things, Yes. *Sigh*
Critical, Yes. *Exhales*
Stubborn, DEFINITLEY NOT! Not me! I more like, look I love you, you love me, let’s make this work. I have no problems at all trying to fix things. That goes for all relationships. I love, love. But when I wash my hands of you, or a situation, you better believe I am done. If I have to deal with you or be around you, know that I see every move, I hear everything thing, even if I don’t speak on it. It’s hard to get over on me. Also, I don’t have time or energy to be in the “I don’t know” stage in life. Either it is, or it isn’t. There’s no space or time to be stubborn. I need to use my energy wisely. Therefore I use it to fix it, or walk away. *Hello* or *Goodbye*
Uncreative/unimaginative, *Hahaha* The devil is a LIE! There’s no need to explain myself here. This blog speaks volumes itself. *Creative is my middle name*
Materalistic, In a reasonable manner kind of way. I wouldn’t divorce my husband if he couldn’t buy me all the hand bags in the world. He is everything. He’s already given me the finer things in life. BUT, I drive a BMW, therefore he wouldn’t have become my husband if he was walking, I’m sorry. *Not* Oh yeah, he has to bring something to the table for sure! Most women out here paying for the table. *I’m gonna leave that alone though, clears throat*
Skeptical, At times
Fussy, It hurts when you tell some of the truth about yourself. Yessss. I am. I promise I am getting better. I really am. God ain’t done with me yet. I’ve learned, well I’m learning, be slow to speak and quick to listen. And it’s working for me. Honestly, people who have had a relationship with me prior to me now, I am sure they would say I’m a changed person.
Inflexible, HECK YEAH! I didn’t make it this far by following, I lead!
Narrow minded, not true. I don’t judge situations or people in them. I may not understand it, but I’ll respect it. That’s what’s important, still respecting one another. I’ve ran into many people in my life, who are the complete opposite from me. But what’s important is that they have basic day to day common curiosity. Now, if someone is disrespecting my God or sticking broom sticks up someone tail, I’m not with none of that. I would have to address it. Keeping your mouth closed in certain circumstances is like agreeing to it. Some things I’m just not entertaining. Point. Blank. Period. But no I don’t walk around narrowed-minded or hating people who don’t see eye to eye with me.
Interferring, Naw. Maybe years ago. I would love to be Ms. Fix it or I always wanted to put my two sense in and help mentor someone in a tough situation. Now! I mind my business all the way. I walk the other way. Some things I don’t want to even hear about. Most people don’t even want help, they prefer the attention. I don’t want to hear the same nonsense repeatedly. Time is precious y’all….I’ll just leave that there.
Can seem cold, Very.
Can seem indecisive, Nope. I’m always on point with what I want. No second guessing. When I know! I know!
Tendency to procrastinate (because they always set the bar so high for themselves.), YES!!! Sooooooo true! *Sigh*
Flightly, Not even! *Haha*
Restless, No even a little bit. Rest is very important! I pray every night before bed. That’s my peace, my solace. My mind is rested. Shoot I sleep and rest good at night.
Pessimistic, Not true! I always find the good and God in every situation, even in bad situations. I know things can be worse. That’s why I don’t ponder long on people, places or things. I can wake up everyday and be a happily married woman because I don’t believe what the world says about marriage and men. I trust what God says. And to God marriage is a blessing, a unity. I take chances and put all my eggs in one basket, because God said, He would never leave me nor for sake me. Being optimistic is major key.
Virgos tend to like:
Intellectaul stimulation, Yes!!!
Details, Ha. Yeah. It’s the little things. The things we miss. The things we tend to take for granted. The details. The details are important. Pay attention.
Facts, ummm….in a sense. It all depends on what the circumstances are.
List, Of course! Duhhh! There’s always a: “To-Do List” “Goal List” “Groccery List” around here some where. There is always a list.
Bringing order out of chaos, Yes. I can say I do. When there is chaos in someone elses life, I promise I feel like I’m the one to call and talk to. I have high confidence that I can talk you off the ledge. I’ve even been told that I’m good at it, ya know, bringing rational into a irrational situation. I can be the voice of reason at times. However, I can use some improvement in my own chaos. Like I said, I’ve come a long ways. I use to linger on things. Not so much now. I have a true prize that made me into a Queen. Naomi changed me. I don’t dwell on things. But I want to be able to not let certain things get to me at all. Work in progress though. *Big Smile*
Improving things, Most definitely! I’m all for growth and good change! Heck yeah. I’m all for improving things around me, as well as myself. To bad all people won’t jump on board though.
Planning things in advance, Who are you kidding! You dog on right! It’s a must! It makes my life juuuust a little bit smoother. Order! Structure! It’s really good for the soul!
Stability, It’s a must! A requirement honestly. A stable man, a stable family, a stable life. I love it!
Security, Yes Lord!!!
Routines, Not nessicarily I mean, my life is waaaaay more routine now than ever. But I truly appreciate it. I like to have a routine with Naomi. I truly believe kids need structure. So a schedule is important. They’re like sponges. They soak up everything. So a routine is good for me. But personally me, myself, I can do things on the spur of the moment. That’s not an issue for me.
Organization, To not have organization in my life, is like having a constant tooth ache or watching paint dry. My life is one semi, big organization. *Hahaha* I keep tabs on everything, tabs, literally. Ask about me…
Virgos tend to dislike:
Showing feelings, Not true! I actually love to express myself. To me, it’s like getting the formalities out the way. My biggest pet peeve is closed mouth people expecting other people to read their minds, or just, I guess somehow know, supposedly. Not cool. So aggravating! Now I’m not the one to share my worse moments or my best moments on social media, and that is for various reasons but yeah, I don’t hide behind my feelings. If you’re an important person in my life, I’m almost, an open book.
Public displays of emotions, Yes true. I will always make sure I show myself respect. I refuse to go out out and act like a monkey cause someone else is stupid. I will always keep my composer in public displays. Self-control. Self-discipline. Get you some. *Winks right eye*
Unnecessary risk, Very true! Anything that is unnecessary or unbeneficial, is no good for me hunny chi.
Chaos and unpredictability, Peace!!! Be still. I don’t like a lot of nonsense, chaos is a distraction I don’t receive. However, when things happen that are unpredictable I don’t always like it, but I just roll with the punches. No need in crying over spilt milk. Stop wasting time and/or energy on talking about it. Do what ya have to do and keep it pushing.
Virgo Love and Sex
Virgos need to feel, desirable by their partners. They are tactical and methodical. Which makes them excellent lovers. Virgos prefer to have a couple of stable relationships, rather than many partners. They want to feel that they are important and needed in their partners lives. They are very faithful and dedicated to their partners.
What can I say, all of that is soooooo very true. I’ve never have been the girl to have one night stands or just cut buddies. I meeeeaaaannn in all truth if an orgasm is all I’m aiming for, well ummmm, I can very well do that myself. I do not appreciate a man that lays on top of me along with everyone else, and me knowing that, and accepting it. I’m way more than my vagina. I have a lot more to offer and man. And he needs to be prepared for that. I also like to be aroused outside of the bed. That’s what’s really attractive to me. I would rather be alone. I would prefer I be a priority to a mans heart, not his penis! So yes, I’ve always tried to find the good in any guy I’ve dealt with (in the past) in hope that I would not be wasting my time. I’ve always preferred conversation on the phone for hours, getting to know each other, rather than a hit up text message. So that’s that. And yes, *clears throat* I am very faithful and loyal to mines.
Virgo Friends and Family
Virgo as a friend is extremely useful to have. *Duuuuh* Virgos are excellent advisors and they really know how to solve a problem. Virgos are always there to remind you to take more care of yourself l, because they are very focused on health and wellness. They are very dedicated to their family and very attentive to the elderly and sick people. They are awesome parents. However, Virgos are not that type of people that will directly show their feelings, they would rather do it through concrete acts.
Well I am truly and thankful for the compliment about being “an awesome parent” I can’t take all the credit. Rob is an amazing father. Team work most definitely makes the dream work in our household.
The day Rob and I decide to get Naomi Christened we made a vow to God in us raising our child. We also promised to always lean on God in helps of raising her. I give all the glory to God when Naomi and me make it through a day. God knows. *Hahaha*
And yes, I’m all about that workout life, and clean eating! It’s a major key! I started to work out heavy before I had Naomi. After having her I was not satisfied with my weight at all. Before I knew it, working out became a life style, and of course clean eating is major key. Having fried food around here is a treat! I bake mostly. It’s really good, get you some seasonings, and BA-BAM!
Fam(ily)is everything, my family is the world. Unity is major to me. We all need someone, we all need people. As far as the well being of the sick and shut-in and the elderly people. I LOVE SEASONED PEOPLE. I’ve always leaned towards the elderly before babies. If you listen closely to them you can learn something. They’ve already been where we’ve been. They have the best stories. I adore them!
As far as solving problems, I’m that gal. I’m a critical thinker. I think out side the box a lot. Mentally I’ll put myself in the situation, and I’ll think about what I would do, say, etc. Yes, I am a person that you will love to have on your team. *Smile* As far as showing feelings, I don’t hide behind them. Well, I’ve already addressed that, so.
Virgo Career and Money
Virgos are very practical, analytical and hard working, so they will always know how to get to he core of the problem. They are very methodical and good at jobs that require good organization. If something is not working as it should, hire a Virgo. If you didn’t know, you better ask somebody! I take pride in anything I do or has my name on it. Knowledge is power! Yes indeed! There is no doubt about that at all. However, where I lack knowledge in something, my attitude picks up the pieces. I currently work at Sally’s one day a week now. I am the only employee who does not have a license in something requiring beautification! I have never worked retail in my life, up until this point. But my personality shines though all that and I learn as I go! And I work hard!! I remember my old manager told me she had another interview with another girl who had her cosmotology license, and I still knew I had the job. No, I am far from cocky. It’s beneath me. But I do trust God, and never once did I doubt myself. I know I am a light that’s shines. A few days later I got a phone call saying I got the job. So they ya go, I lacked a lot of knowledge when it came to this job. But my attitude landed the job right in my lap and I learn constantly.
When they focus on some task, they will give their best to excute it perfectly. They love books and art. Possible career options for a Virgo include doctor, nurse, psychologist, teacher, writer, critic.
Focus! It’s important. Focus on the right things though, it’s sooooo many people who are focused on the wrong things it’s pitiful. Remember, you make time for what you want. And that’s in all aspects of your life. Stop making excuses!
Did someone say books!?!? I absolutely am a book worm. I love to read! I refuse to listen to audio books! It’s not the same! The feel of the book, the cover, the smell of the pages when you turn them arouses my brain. As far as art, I’m crafty. That’s something that has grown on me more through the years. My mom is a book worm as well, and both of my parents love arts and crafts more than a fish loves the water. So hey, I couldn’t escape it!
If I could be many things in life, a doctor would be one of them. I would love to be a surgeon. I’m not sure what kind though. I’ve worked in the medical field for yeeaarrss! I’ve never once regretted it. I’ve been volunteering in the medical field since I was 15 years old. This is the first time in years that I haven’t volunteered. I can’t wait to get back to it, I really miss it. I’ve volunteered/worked at the nursing home, hospitals, and as a EMT. I would say pulling call with other EMT’s, Paramedics and Fire Fighters was definitley one of the best experiences in my life! But working at the Veterans hospital in the emergency room was when I learned a lot about people and life. People tend to tell you things when they’re dying, or think they’re dying. I have talked to soooo many patients. I have even learned from them. The feeling of saving a life is so honorable. I’m so thankful for the experience. That was only the beginning. *Feeling motivated*
Virgos are excellent spenders, because they are very careful and they will always try to save as much as possible. They plan all cost in advance and when it comes to buying they’re inclined to spend too much. However, from time to time, they want to buy something nice for themselves. Now, my husband would beg the differ. But this is true! *Hahahaha!*
How To Attract The Virgo Woman
The Virgo personality is a mix of intelligence, attention to detail, common sense, and commitment. Virgo women and very wise, witty, and reliable. Trying to seduce a woman born under the Virgo zodiac sign can seem intimidating at first. However, Virgo woman is not cold, but she is practical, realistic when it comes to relationships. You will need a lot of patience, but once she decides that you’re worth her time, she will become very caring and a passionate lover.
Now, let me just put this on out there. I have messed with some clowns. Some who didn’t get hugged enough as children, and a few that may have gotten hugged too much. I do not do mommas boys! I’m not trying to be ya momma, and ya momma can’t be me. Let’s get that straight. Some of those fools didn’t make it past the first date! Yes! I went on dates. I aint never been big on drive bys to the house. Take me out! Shoot! But yes, looking back, I must have been lonely as crap to even entertain some of the people I entertained. Once I got older and became maturer I started to see things differently. I started to realize what I wanted for myself and want I would and wouldn’t tolerate in having it. My relationship with God grew, and that also was a major spark in my life. I want to be an adult, not just grown. I learned early that I would only love someone who celebrates me and not just tolerates me. And I would position myself to be a Queen so I could recieve my King. So no, I’ve never been stupid, but I can admitt I was very dumb for a while. But God….I am so grateful that I have it right now!
So there you go!!! A little bit or a little lot about me! Me being a Virgo woman that is. Did I ever mention that Naomi is a Virgo gal too. My sweet pea! I know she has one Virgo trait down so far. That little girl loves books! So we shall see!
Virgos are the REAL deal….
I’m Just Saying…