So my home girl Bree sent me this link about Steve Harvey and a discussion that he had on his show and when I tell you he spoke the truth. Honey, he spoke the truth! I think maybe she sent it to me so I could actually blog about it maybe I’m not sure, but I am going to share with you the knowledge that Steve spit…
….and I quote
“I am a father. Before I was a father I was a man and before I was a man I was a boy. So I’m going to give you the boy’s perspective, the man’s perspective and the father’s perspective as a father!
GET THIS!
You’re just a piece of property to these boys! Nothing more!! So when you try to convince them they just persist and if you like them then you end up sinning! Guys are doggish sometimes man. We doggish! When we don’t care about a woman we doggish. See you can train a guy how to treat you! We’re trainable! Matter of fact we can only treat you how you allow us!
THE PROBLEM IS WE KNOW YA’LL DON’T KNOW YALL’S VALUE!
YOU KEEP DEVALUING YOURSELF! YOU KEEP MAKING YOURSELF WORTH LESS!
These punk ass boys they ain’t worth nothing.
They ain’t working, they can’t take care of you, they can give you a baby but can’t take care of it. They ain’t worth a damn! Listen to me! Ain’t none of them worth a damn!
YOU ARE VALUABLE!
One day you are going to meet a man who is going to be everything you’ve ever wanted! You’re going to meet him! And guess what, you’re going to be everything he’s ever wanted. You’re going to be that person!
Sweet heart! You got so much in front of you! Look at you! Look at how pretty you are! Don’t blow your life on these ignorant boys who have nothing to offer!”
Steve said a mouthful! Usually I have a lot to say but he did that honey! There are some good men still out here don’t look at it as the world is full of “doggish” men like most women do now! That’s not true! Have ive messed with guys that I look back at and am like dog on I must have been smoking oregano. Yes I do, but in time I learned!
I know my value and I got my worth!
Don’t settle!! For nothing and no one!
I’m Just Saying…