I would ride out to him like it was nothing, like it was second nature. I mean, it was. I always wanted to spend time with him. Especially during the holidays. It just, it just felt right. Ya know, regardless of whatever was going on, Christmas with him was everything. (Then & now.) I would plan all these… Read More
Okay, really quick, because I’m about to get my nails done! So… “Broken people break people. And opportunities. And bridges. And blessings. And….” Man listen, the one thing life is going to make sure of, is that broken knows who you are. It can be sometimes, all the time, whatever! At some point in your… Read More
First thing first! Stop being so hard on yourself! Second, ask yourself, what does this have to do with me? And third. Why, ask yourself, why? Why am I doing this? Do you ever realize that maybe you’re too hard on yourself? Like, seriously. I’m talking to myself too. Lord knows! So yeah, I’m really… Read More
Diet = DYING TO EAT!! Why is it that I want to eat everything that I don’t even like because I’m on a diet?! Everything sounds good to me. Every-thing! For example, cheese cake. Yeah, I don’t like cheese cake. Too sweet. Not really my jam. I can maybe have a pinch of it, and that’s… Read More
I really need to, NO, I really want to become more committed to myself. More loyal to myself. More confident in myself. More determined for myself. So, each day I have an agenda that I will abide by, for myself. 1. Put that phone on disturb, heck, turn the dang thang off! Okay, so let… Read More
Self- Care 1 – 20 …. Let me cater to you! This is just a Self- Care 1 through 20 on what we need to do for ourselves sometimes, shoot, a lot of times!! I find myself being so gracious, comforting, and loyal to other people, that I have none left for myself, soooo….. 1.… Read More
…..Except this is Us, and this is Love. and this is where I’m Home. This is Us, and this is Love and this is where I Sleep. -Emeli Sande I remember I once told Rob, years ago, way before I thought we would even be married. (Wow.) I said to him, I remember it just like yesterday, if… Read More
“Distance doesn’t separate people. Silence does.” You know what trips me out? When someone says to me, “Girl, I don’t know how you do it. I can’t have my man being gone all the time, on and off.” *Clears throat* Well, ya know, whatever floats ya boat, to each it’s own. Me personally, I wasn’t… Read More
“Women don’t need men like men need women.” Say what!!!! I done heard it from the horses mouth! (A man.) I mean, it doesn’t make it golden or a fact but, I love my Uncle and I love that he was so, umm, so clear about his perspective on men and women. That’s pretty much all he said,… Read More
Vulnerable, susceptible to physical or emotional attack or harm. Helpless. Defenseless. Powerless. Impotent. Weak, Susceptible. Oh my goodness, don’t you just hate feeling, vulnerable? Like a sitting duck in the middle of nowhere, and everyone is just watching you. You feel like people can see right through you, but yet they do not understand, at all. The energy, the exhaustion,… Read More
