“Distance doesn’t separate people. Silence does.” You know what trips me out? When someone says to me, “Girl, I don’t know how you do it. I can’t have my man being gone all the time, on and off.” *Clears throat* Well, ya know, whatever floats ya boat, to each it’s own. Me personally, I wasn’t… Read More

“Women don’t need men like men need women.” Say what!!!! I done heard it from the horses mouth! (A man.) I mean, it doesn’t make it golden or a fact but, I love my Uncle and I love that he was so, umm, so clear about his perspective on men and women. That’s pretty much all he said,… Read More

Vulnerable, susceptible to physical or emotional attack or harm. Helpless. Defenseless. Powerless. Impotent. Weak, Susceptible. Oh my goodness, don’t you just hate feeling, vulnerable? Like a sitting duck in the middle of nowhere, and everyone is just watching you. You feel like people can see right through you, but yet they do not understand, at all. The energy, the exhaustion,… Read More

Soooo-oooo-ooo, maybe I should have assumed different, but, umm, who the heck was going to tell me that I was going to be exhausted times ten during this move, and it’s not even officially started yet! I mean, why didn’t I think I wouldn’t be tired? That’s the real question! Laaawd!  Jesus be a fence!!! When I… Read More

What if we talked about what scares you the most in life. Don’t think hard about it, just think, what is the first thing that comes to your mind when it comes to fear? What holds your brain hostage a few hours out the day, a few days out of the week, a few months out… Read More

  Okay! So, we all know the first step to a problem is admitting, and accepting that you have one, right? Well. *Clears throat.* Here I am, admitting that I have a problem. I AM ON MY PHONE WAAAAY TOO MUCH! And for real, for real! I’m on my own nerves about it. Like, its just ridiculous! I really… Read More

  I guess I’m being a little nose-z! Buuut…what is ya everyday thang? Like, what is ya entity? What does everyone close to you know the one thang about you? Who would think a little flame would have so much of an effect on me. Cause chile, let me tell you! I love me some… Read More

Long time, no talk to! I’ve been busy, busy, busy. Well, maybe a little more lazy, lazy, lazy. But ummm…I can do that from time to time. Shoot. Anyone who knows me knows, I’ve probably done a full days work by 11 o’clock. Well, dog on it, it caught up with me. Last week was a very lazy week.… Read More

Change is a beautiful thing. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. It’s rejuvenating, a refreshing feeling and it is nothing like it at all. To be able to wake up feeling like you can conquer the world, even when the weight of the world tries to get comfortable on your shoulders. As an adult, there is always… Read More

Stop barking up trees you know you won’t build a house in.” What in the world is going on? Literally! I mean, even when I was single and dating it was bad, but I’m like is it getting worse by the year? I’ve only been married for two. Marriage is work, and exactly what you… Read More